
Forget becoming “a better version” of yourself.
You’re already her — she’s just buried under bad advice, burnout, and belief systems that were never built for women with full lives and big vision.
Enter Human Design — a body-based decision-making tool that doesn’t tell you who to be… it shows you how to return to who you actually are.
No more guesswork. No more self-help spirals.
Just four steps — rooted in your energy type, your decision-making strategy, and your Authority (a.k.a. your inner GPS with teeth).
Let’s go.
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Know Your Type: Stop Using Someone Else’s Operating System
Your Type shows how your energy naturally wants to move through the world. Trying to lead like someone else is like trying to run iOS on a toaster. It’s glitchy, exhausting, and doesn’t get results.
Here’s the cheat sheet:
- Generator / Manifesting Generator (The Energy Expander): You build momentum by responding to the world around you — through what lights you up, frustrates you, excites you, or triggers a full-body “hell no.” You’re not here to sit still or “wait” passively. You’re here to notice what’s worth your energy — and move when your gut lights up.
- Projector (The Pattern Seer): You see what others miss. You’re not lazy — you’re efficient. Your job isn’t to hustle; it’s to offer insight when you’re genuinely seen and asked. That’s not passive — that’s powerful.
- Manifestor (The Instigator): You feel the urge to do something new and your body says GO. Your only job? Let people know before you do it. That’s called leadership, not permission-seeking.
- Reflector (The Mirror): You sense what’s working and what’s off. You need time to feel through things — not because you’re slow, but because you’re calibrated to wisdom, not speed.
Knowing your type = less pushing, more precision.
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Strategy: Use the Clues Life Hands You
Strategy is how your energy dances with the world. It’s not about “waiting” — it’s about being on alert for the spark, the hit, the trigger, the body cue. It’s real-world intel from your nervous system.
Here’s what that looks like:
- For Generators/MGs: “Wait to respond” = scan the room. The post, the pitch, the person, the smell of the coffee — something will land in your body. When it does, you’ll feel the pulse to move. That’s your green light.
- For Projectors: “Wait for the invitation” = stop shouting into the void. Your power lands when you’re seen. Create visibility around your insight, and the right doors will open.
- For Manifestors: “Inform before you act” = don’t ghost your people. When you tell them what’s about to happen, your impact lands cleaner — and the resistance fades.
- For Reflectors: “Wait a lunar cycle” = feel the full arc. Give yourself the space to know how you really feel — not just what the room feels. When you know, you know.
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Authority: This Is How You Decide — Without the Spiral
Your Authority is your built-in decision-making system. Not your mind. Not your logic. Not your mother’s voice in your head. It’s your body’s truth — and it has a name.
Let’s break it down:
- Emotional Authority → The Wave Walker You need time. That urge to say yes? Let it marinate. Your clarity comes after the emotional wave has passed. Let your nervous system settle. Then decide.
- Sacral Authority → The Gut-Led Leader You know in the moment. Your body says “uh-huh” (yes) or “uhn-uhn” (no). Trust the grunt. It’s primal. It’s precise.
- Splenic Authority → The Whisper Reader You get instant hits — quiet, subtle, fleeting. It’s that ping of “don’t go there” or “text her now.” You don’t get logic — you get instinct. Act fast. It won’t stick around.
- Ego Authority → The Desire-Driven Boss What do you want? Not what’s noble, productive, or on-brand — but what makes you feel undeniably you. When you speak from that fire, the right people follow.
- Self-Projected Authority → The True Voice You don’t need advice. You need to hear yourself say it. Talk it out in a safe space. When you say the right thing, it will ring true in your bones.
- Mental/Environmental Authority → The Vibe Aligner Your clarity lives in the right place with the right people. You don’t need fast answers. You need resonance. When the space is wrong, everything is off. When it’s right? Boom — clarity.
- Lunar Authority → The Sacred Timer You need the whole cycle. Not because you’re slow — because you’re wise. Feel the moon move through the signs. Your decision will arrive like the tide.
If you’ve ever thought: “I can’t trust myself” — this is how you learn to.
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Experiment. You’re Not Broken — You’re Unpracticed
Human Design isn’t a belief system. It’s a body test.
Try using your Strategy + Authority in the small things — what to eat, what to say yes to, what workout to skip.
This is the method that rewires your habits, your business, your relationships — not by fixing who you are, but by freeing her.
Want to go deeper?
Take the Inherited Response™ Quiz to find out if you’re making choices from your design or from old survival scripts.
Then explore The Clarity Code® — a Human Design starter guide tailored to your Authority. Each one includes your frequency name, decision strategy, body system support, and next move.
Because you don’t need another system.
You need your system — activated.
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